Thursday, November 21, 2013

#IDOMARATHON-Happy 40th Bday Chwanda!!

Watch the video and listen to the words!! Nothing has been more true!!  We do truly have a real love.

Happy 40th birthday to my lovely wife!! Many many more to come.

I bet it all on you and me!!



Tuesday, November 12, 2013

#idomarathon Illinois and Hawaii

Within the last week marriage equality has passed in both Illinois AND Hawaii!!

How exciting is this?!?!

Every time another state passes,  I get a little teary eyed because it is forward progress in this marriage equality fight. 

Even though we are no longer Illinois residents I was so overwhelmed with joy when marriage equality finally passed in Illinois.  Because though we had a civil union in Illinois on 4/7/2012, it wasn't a marriage!! I CANNOT wait to go to my home state and OFFICIALLY say "I DO" to my wife again for the umpteenth time!!  Which we are planning to be in July 2014. 

And now today Hawaii has passed!! A warm weather wedding (finally)...this one...WILL be on a beach!!

So as we continue to wait and wait and wait for Georgia to come to their senses, we will continue our marathon...but in the end my goal is to say "I DO" to my wife 50 times....(at least)!!

So now I get to change my hashtag from #8down7togo OFFICIALLY to least until the next state passes marriage equality!

Marry on.........


Tuesday, October 29, 2013

#idomarathon Needs YOUR support!!

We are trying to raise money to fund the next 5 ceremonies that will take place April 21-25, 2014. 

We have started a "gofundme" site where you can securely donate to the idomarathon.

Our page is all set up and ready to go!! BUT it need $100 in donations before they will make the page active (so other people can see the page). 

So we need your can donate any amount as low as $5.00!!

If we get 20 people to donate $5 bucks....we are there!!

So check it out and thank you for your support!!

Friday, October 25, 2013

#idomarathon 2014 Dates!

We have dates!!! The 2014 leg of the #idomarathon will be as follows:

Monday April 21, 2014 Dubuque, Iowa
Monday April 21, 2014 Harmony, Minnesota
Tuesday April 22, 2014 Niagara Falls, Toronto, Ontario
Wednesday April 23, 2014 Providence, Rhode Island
Thursday April 24, 2014 Newark, New Jersey
Friday April 25, 2014 Dover, Delaware

Remember that everyone is welcome and we would love to see you!!


Wednesday, July 17, 2013

#idomarathon 8/1/2013 weddings postponed

Well it looks like we will have to postpone the weddings we had planned for Rhode Island and Delaware on August 1, 2013 due to funding.  (sad face) But once we set a new date we will update you.  SO STAY TUNED!!

But you can still help us win our Washington wedding. Please click the link below and "LIKE" the photo. Thanks!! ‪#‎idomarathon  #8down6togo

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

#idomarathon Bright Horizons

We have a lot of things in the works and are waiting for them to come to fruition.  We already had a great radio interview last Saturday!! And from that we will hopefully get a connection to someone locally here in Georgia to get us a little more exposure!

We are still in a contest to win our Washington wedding. If we win that one it would be a BIG help.  You can help us out by clicking the link below and just "LIKE" the photo.  If we win, you can totally be invited!!

We were also nominated to be Grand Marshals in the Atlanta Pride Parade in October.  We won't know if we got selected until August but it's just cool to have our name thrown in the hat!

So all this, in addition to being recognized on a federal level as wives is super awesome.  But our work is not done because none of our 8 marriages are legal in Georgia. (sad face).  So we continue!

With that 8 down....6 more to go (IA, CA, MN, RI, DE, WA)!! And I get excited just thinking about 6 more weddings!!

PLUS today is the 3 month anniversary of our 5th "I DO" in Colchester, Vermont!!
Peace and Love!!
Kacey & Chwanda

Friday, July 5, 2013

#idomarathon Aurora Jonez radio show!!

Tomorrow night at 10 pm me and Chwanda will be on The Living Life Aurora Show!! You can listen to it online at!

We hope you will tune in!!

Talk to you tomorrow!!



Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Mrs. & Mrs.....FEDERALLY!!

DOMA has been deemed UNCONSTITUTIONAL and Prop8 is dismissed...EXCELLENT!!

But alas, the #idomarathon will continue because even though the federal government recognizes our 8 marriages and we now get 1,138 rights we didn't have before, our home state of Georgia still does not.  But at least we get to add California to the #idomarathon!!!!

This leaves:
  • California
  • Delaware
  • Iowa
  • Minnesota
  • Rhode Island
  • Washington
#thefightcontinues #MARRIAGEEQUALITY


Monday, April 22, 2013

#idomarathon in Equally Wed!!

Georgia Couple Wraps Up I Do Marathon, Marrying Each Other in Eight States Offering Marriage Equality:

Kacey and Chwanda Frierson-Nixon celebrated their third anniversary of their relationship on April 7, and now they’ve added nine
more anniversaries to their calendar—nine wedding anniversaries.

Sunday, April 7, 2013

April 7...Blue...Wedding #1...The far!

Central Park is BEAUTIFUL! Even though it was windy out..and the wind blew one of my eyelashes  Our ceremony was PERFECT! Looking into my wife's eyes and looking at our children's smiles, made me forget how cold I was.  But it couldn't have been more perfect.  And even though it looks white, my dress is really sky blue!

Thanks to everyone who came out to be a part of this day! We truly appreciate it!!

Tomorrow we are off to Connecticut.....and it's yellow!!

Kacey <3

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Where has the time gone??? #idomarathon

Whew only 13 days until the #idomarathon kicks off and 15 days until our wedding day! On the 1 year anniversary of our civil union and 3 years since we have been together we will be united in holy LEGAL matrimony!! Who can't be happy and excited about that? And to share the moment with 7 of the most important people in our lives, our children makes it that much more special!

This trip is going to be so many things!!  Can't say that everything will go perfectly but if nothing else it will be full of love.

So just keep an eye 13 days you may just see the #idomarathon train buzzing past your freeway of love!!!

~ Kacey

Sunday, March 3, 2013


33 days to go!! Can you feel the excitement in the air???
There is so much going on behind the scenes..good things to come; a radio show, meetings, phone calls, emails, wheeeew....but it seems like a lot of hurry up and wait.  But we were built for this.
Is this what the calm before the storm feels like??
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Monday, February 4, 2013

Chwanda's Word

In 59 days and counting, I will be marrying my beautiful wife 9 times in 8 states and 2 countries in 10 days!!! I AM UBER EXCITED!!

I am her soulmate, helpmate, love of her life.

She is the brains of the idea and the producer. I just take! I know my place and I play my role!! I wait on her 'to do' list everyday and I comply! She asks my opinion, I respond and she makes it all work together, balanced for the both of us to enjoy and appreciate!

I love her passion, dedication and willingness to make things happen! It's such a joy to watch her create and unfold her ideas and "OUR" wants!



Saturday, February 2, 2013

Mothers May I?: Chwanda Nixon & Kacey Frierson | Out Magazine

Check out #idomarathon in Out Magazine!!!

Mothers May I?: Chwanda Nixon & Kacey Frierson | Out Magazine

We are so excited and happy about it!!

We love all the love and support we have received!!

Also, the glitch with the website has been go check it out!!

Love yall!!

Kacey <3

Friday, February 1, 2013

#idomarathon Ceremony Colors

                      We have finally decided on wedding colors for each location!!!

If you are attending we would love if you would show support by wearing the specific color, not required but it would be nice!!

Sunday April 7, 2013                         (Central Park) New York, NY; 

Monday April 8, 2013     (Lynde Point Lighthouse) Old Saybrook, CT;

Tuesday April 9, 2013             (Whaleback Ledge) Kittery Point, ME;
Tuesday April 9, 2013                                                 Manchester, NH;
Tuesday April 9, 2013                                                     Burlington, VT;

Wednesday April 10, 2013                                                 Montreal, QC;

Thursday April 11, 2013                                                         Worcester, MA;

Friday April 12, 2013                                                         Baltimore, MD;
Friday April 12, 2013                                                         Washington, DC.




#IDOMARATHON and Out Magazine -Update!

Here is the link about the #idomarathon in Out Magazine!!

Here is the link for the slideshow that shows all the couples that were featured!
Feel free to share, like and tweet it!!
We are sooo excited about it!!

Monday, January 28, 2013

#idomarathon Countdown...66 days!!!

The #idomarathon will kick off in 66 days!! There is still sooo much to do:

  • pick clothes for 2 brides and 7 kids for all 9 ceremonies
  • get car road ready
  • print out applications for licenses
  • fill out said
  • get flights for the boys
  • keep on promoting and getting the word out there about our journey
  • keep all social media sites updates
  • make phone calls to make things are how we want them in each location
  • talking with the photographers that have signed on to chronicle their selective ceremonies
  • speak to the officiants about our ceremonies
  • find and purchase a nice video camera to record our moments

But it will all be worth it in the end!  I think this will be the most EXCITING 10 days in #teamfrinix far.  This is just the much more is and will be opening up for us. 

Thank you for coming along for the ride!!

Kacey <3

Thursday, January 24, 2013

#idomarathon & Out Magazine!!

How EXCITING!!!!  The #IDOMARATHON is featured in the February 2013 Out Magazine "Love Issue"!!

We are super excited for our family to be seen and for our story to be out there.  Trust me 1 wedding is stressful...but 9?! You have NO idea. but we are so up for this and ready and raring to go!

There is not a link to it online yet but you can purchase the print edition!!  Once the online link is available...I will be sure to post it!!

Let us know what you think!!

Kacey & Chwanda
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Thursday, January 17, 2013


You can find the #idomarathon just about anywhere!! 
Check us out!!...add us, like us, tweet us, share us!!
Thank you for all your support!!!
Kacey & Chwanda

#IDOMARATHON Ceremony dates!

Which one are you coming to??

ceremony #1 Central Park, New York Sunday April 7, 2013
ceremony #2 Stamford, Connecticut Monday April 8, 2013
ceremony #3 Kittery, Maine Tuesday April 9, 2013
ceremony #4 Manchester, New Hampshire Tuesday April 9, 2013
ceremony #5 Burlington, Vermont Tuesday April 9, 2013
ceremony #6 Montreal, Quebec, Canada Wednesday April 10, 2013
ceremony #7 Boston, Massac...husetts Thursday April 11, 2013
ceremony #8 Baltimore, Maryland Friday April 12, 2013
ceremony #9 Washington, DC Friday April 12, 2013


Thursday, January 10, 2013

Chwanda's Say

Good Morning All,

I pray all of your new years dreams have begun or you are in the process of initiating the beginnings of a blessed and prosperous year for yourselves!

Kacey and I have started off the New Year blessed and thanking God for each and every blessing we have been given and those that are yet to come. We only have 85 more days for our journey to begin...CAN WE SAY UBER EXCITED!!!! YESSSSS!!!!

I just want to thank each and all of you for visiting our website, blogspot, facebook page, twitter pages. Thanks for all of your support and love, it is greatly appreciated!

We are creating memories, taking a stance on our love being expressed just as equal as every other human being in the world!

I love my rock, my soulmate, my heart, my partner, my best friend, my wife; with everything in me. She keeps me motivated to get up and tackle the day, EVERY morning! It is a joy and a blessing to have her in my life and I CANNOT wait to stand up NINE times and marry my love this year and however many more as the years pass!! WHEW!!

Well, again everyone have a great, wonderful and blessed day!!


Saturday, January 5, 2013

#idomarathon Entered 2 Contests!!

The #idomarathon has entered 2 wedding contests and we would LOVE your support on them (feel free to share this)!!! I looked through the pictures of the contestants and we are one of the only lesbian couples entered.
Click this link to help us win a LIVE wedding!!! (You can vote once a day) Search for Kacey Frierson or Chwanda Nixon to find us!! Voting works best when using google Chrome, otherwise there may be loading issues!!

Click this link to help us win a wedding reception at Maggiano's, leave a comment to help us get to the finals!!  The comments are needed to help determine the please comment!!
Thank you guys in advance!! <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
Kacey & Chwanda